How do I meet good sweet sincere and loyal Asian girls?
This is the number one question my friends back home keep asking me. They have known many asian girls, but were never able to get a date or start up a conversation. Others have actually made the effort to travel to Asia. Maybe they went to Thailand or to China or even Taiwan or the Philliphines, but they were unable to meet nice sweet girls. Foreigners in Asia, often do not know how or where they can go to meet the hard working and honest and loyal good girls. The prostitutes and bar girls are of course easy to find and meet, but do not make good long term companions. Meanwhile there are many nice girls that would just love nothing more than to meet a good western man she can love and marry.
Language is of course a challenge. How can I meet someone without speaking Thai? How could I find a chinese girl without speaking chinese? Taglog? Khmer? Vietnamese anyone? Impossible, no. Sometimes challenging yes. One thing westerners often find is that once the initial shyness is overcome, Asian girls, and Asian people in general are eager to learn English. Most of them were taught a little bit of English in school, but were never able to practice and develop fluency. This is where you come in. Actually this is one key methods that many people have used to meet a girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, or wife. Language exchange. You teach them English, they teach you Thai, or Chinese or khmer. A language exchange partner can often turn into love and romance. The local newspaper, bullitin boards at schools, supermarkets, and forums online are excellent ways to find someone to be a language exchange partner. Beside forums online, there are many excellent online asian dating sites and services to fit all budgets and tastes. Some people prefer to be led by the hand and use what I call "mail order bride" websites, that will help you find, contact, translate, and finally meet the girl(s) of your dreams. The other end of the spectrum are the 100% free asian dating sites that give you a place to put your personal ad, your photo, and allow you to send and recieve messages. These sites, do not translate, introduce, or get involved in any way, they are more of an online personals classified section. There are of course everything in between these two extremes with different costs, of both time and money. There are no gurantees in love, but it is certain that meeting asian girls is not as difficult as many believe it to be.